The Truth About Porn Pussy


So it is true that as a woman, pussy insecurities can effect all of us at anytime. Even as a beauty therapist who sees vagina's on the regular, and knows for sure that my bits are considered "normal". When it comes to revelling my own bits to a stranger or even a not so stranger there are still times that I still experience the effects of the insecure pussy. So if you feel the same, you are not alone!


I still remember the first time I went to receive my own first Brazilian wax, I had been in the beauty industry a year so I had seen a few and thought my bits were of acceptable physical form 😉 but I still had this sneaking thought of "What if she thinks my bits are weird" or "What if there is something wrong with me?!". I had no worry at all about the pain of it, all my worry and anxiety was focused purely on "This woman is going to see my vagina in broad daylight!" 🙀.


I mean I had been sexually active for a while and had been to the doctor a couple of times for regular check ups as you do, but there can be something really nerve wracking about going to get a wax am I right?


I mean beauty therapists aren't doctors, and they certainly aren't your sexual partner they are just some woman who is labeled a "beauty" therapist looking at my apparently not not so beautiful bits in the eyes of society.


By the way we are not all vain and obsessed with beauty, the majority of us are caring, kind and supportive and understand how horrible insecurities are, because we struggle with them also. So put your mind at ease next time you want to get a wax, we are not all out to judge.


We are surrounded more than ever by the pressure of opinions of what is considered normal and what is not, what is ugly and what is beautiful but this is simply in the eye of the beholder and we seriously need to give ourselves a break in the pussy department.


If you are doing this, and I know there are a lot of woman out there who do, PLEASE, stop comparing your lady bits to those of porn stars. Their job is sex, they are on screen or posing for photo shoots and the like. They go out of their way to make their vajay as society written perfect as possible. This is not healthy and simply not a fun time and will hold you back from the most amazing sex life of your dreams.


We live in a time where porn, sex symbols and sex work is everywhere and more accessible than ever. A time when woman are comparing their genitals to the genitals of porn stars. Where a lot of males (and some females) expectations of what sex truly is, is taught to them through fake orgasms, and hard core and sometimes degrading porn.


The book I am reading at the moment has just presented this as a topic and I felt the need to share it with you.


The book is called "Mind Blowing Sex, A Woman's Guide" and the woman who wrote it, Diana Cage, has worked in the porn industry herself, she has worked on porn magazines and been on porn sets. She writes "So believe me when I say the pussies you see in porn have been pinkened, brightened, softened and painted and otherwise altered with nearly every Photoshop filter you can imagine."

She also writes "Think of them as vagina supermodels. Supermodels have tons of plastic surgery; they get everything sucked out and plumped up. They subject themselves to constant cosmetic procedures. So do porn stars, but they don't stop at the face. They get laser hair removal. They get laser vaginoplasty or laser vaginal rejuvenation to look pink and delicate. They also get labiaplasty - a process in which the labia are trimmed to the patients specifications. Many porn stars also get their anus bleached.

Why waste time fretting over your "imperfect" pussy when you could be out there enjoying all the amazing things it can do?"


Let alone the fact of a potential human mistake that all doctors are capable of and desensitising your beautiful lady bits forever! That is just a huge risk I don't think ANYONE should undergo for the sake of "perfection".


So ladies how about embracing your pussy in all her beautiful glory, just as she is.


Whatever shape or form she is your pleasure and your power house. She unlocks the key to your soul and connects you on a deeper level with your self and with your loved one. Give her some loving and let her light up your life. Your pussy is totally normal in whatever form she comes in (whatever normal is) and how about worshipping her instead of punishing her for the goodness she brings you! For some it maybe challenging to fall back in love with her but do it in baby steps in whatever way works for you. Start with this mantra today:


"I love my pussy and my pussy loves me"

(Using whatever vagina word you prefer 😊)


Reconnecting with your sexy power, will truly set you free.


Lots of love

Amy Dee xxo



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